Mango Memories

Okay, here's the mango ice cream recipe that Karen had asked for. My children love this recipe, and as you'll see, it's amazingly easy.
Karen mentioned that she owns a mango farm, so I'm going to give you two versions of this recipe.
Take a half gallon of your favorite vanilla ice cream and leave it out on the kitchen counter until it softens.
Take six ripe mangoes, peel, seed, chop, and blend. When the mangoes are pureed, fold them into the ice cream. Pour into a plastic container with a tight-fitting lid (such as a Tupperware container) and freeze. It takes about 3 hours to freeze again.
Or, if you are in a city with an Indian grocery, buy a large can of mango pulp. Fold the pulp into the softened ice cream, and freeze as described above. (This is what I do, except in mango season).
You can serve this with a topping of chopped mangoes.
Did you know, there's supposed to be about a thousand varieties of mangoes that grow in India?

Mangoes remind me of my grandfather's home in our ancestral village, where he had a small grove of trees behind the house. In mango season, we were allowed to climb the trees and pick our own mangoes. Unfortunately, as a city-child who only visited on holidays, I was very bad at climbing trees and was forced to depend on my cousins' capricious goodwill for my mangoes. (Incidentally, they almost drowned me in the pond behind our house once, but that's another story.)

My mother claims she saw a ghost in the mango orchard one time, a woman who was picking mangoes after a storm, and who disappeared when my mother approached her. After I heard the story, I wished and wished I would see a ghost, too, but none appeared to me. I had to be satisfied with putting one into my novel, Sister of My Heart.

When I first came to this country, I was very homesick for India, for the tastes and smells of home. I was living in the Midwest then,  in a smallish town. Indian foods were rare. One day I remember walking into a grocery, and there was a pile of mangoes. They cost $3 each, which at that time, for a poor hourly-wage student like I was, was exorbitant. I bought one anyway.  I was so looking forward to eating it. But it turned out to be really sour.

One more mango story.  Early in our marriage, my husband Murthy and I went to Hawaii on vacation. On our last day, we came across a mango tree on a public road. It was full of mangoes, and many ripe ones had fallen to the ground. I picked up six of them to bring home. But at the airport I was told I couldn't carry any fruit back to the mainland. Murthy was ready to throw them away, but I refused. I sat there by the customs checkpoint and ate all six mangoes while the customs officers stared and Murthy pretended he didn't know who I was.

I hope you'll share some of your food memories with me.

Takes a Village

So tonight is my very first author chat on my Facebook page--and all you amazing readers are warmly invited to participate! Here's the link: http://www.facebook.com/pages/Chitra-Banerjee-Divakaruni/123916900105.

Anyone who joins the page can take part in the chat.  Just post your comments & questions on the wall, and I'll answer. You'll have to be patient because I'm not the most tech-savvy person. (But my wonderful webmaster, Anirvan Chatterjee, founder of bookfinder.com, and his equally wonderful wife Barnali have assured me that I can do it.)

I owe Anirvan BIG thanks--he set up my website way back, when I didn't even know how important it was to have one & has maintained it with loving care ever since. He and Barnali helped hugely with setting up my Facebook page, including putting up the book cover photos, and he set up this blog as well and came up with the gorgeous golden Amer Fort image on top of the page. He's so modest/ethical that he won't even let me put a bookfinder link on my website, but folks, do check out the service: Jacqueline Deval, writer of An Insider's Guide to Getting Your Book the Attention It Deserves,  says it's the best book search service on the net.(p 221)

Deval's book is very helpful, by the way, filled with great ideas for writers.

The other day I read Malcolm Gladwell's The Outliers in my book club (I belong to one, too) & it made me think about how we owe our success to so many people. How much we have to be thankful for.

When I was in my 20s (yes, ancient history),  I was visiting The Divine Life ashram in Rishikesh, and Swami Krishnananda, a great monk, asked me, "What do you want in life?" At that time, independence was a big deal for me, so I said, "I want to never be dependent on anyone." He laughed and laughed, and when he stopped, he said, "My dear, you couldn't exist on this earth for one single moment if countless beings weren't supporting you."

As I grow older I understand the truth of what he said a little better. It certainly applies to whatever writing success I've achieved.

So many people have formed my "village."

My superb agent Sandra Dijkstra, the original power-lady, who performs her magic from out west in San Diego, ( I'm going to see her this weekend when I'm there on tour) and who's believed in me from the time I only had  3 stories.

My many perceptive editors, especially Barbara Jones, who's so patient and intelligent--she's working with me on One Amazing Thing. And Barbara, you've made the process at once fun and soul-searching.

Murthy, my most supportive husband, who takes over mommy duties when I go on tour. (Sorry, sweetheart, for saying "Do I tell you how to be an engineer?" when you offer suggestions about improving my writing.)

My sons, whom I call on for help of many kinds: ("Boys, what's a better word for..?"  "Boys, my computer screen just went BLANK!" "Boys, the dog has to be taken out--this instant!")

All my spiritual teachers, whom I mention in the acknowledgments in my books. I can't put into words what they've meant in my life.

My 85 year old mother who insists on living on her own in our ancestral village in Bengal and who taught me the meaning of self reliance.

My 84 year old mother in law, who has never said one mean thing to me, not once in the 29 years I've known her.

The great writers from whose books I've learned so much.

The list goes on.

And on that list is you, dear reader. Without you, how could I be an author at all?